Quote Posted by joynpain2 Posted on November 23, 2013 Posted under chronic pain, NaBloPoMo 2013, quotes Comments 12 Comments A Safer Space –“…you have every right to leave and create a safer space for yourself.” Advertisements Rate this:Share this:FacebookTwitterGooglePocketTumblrLike this:Like Loading... Related #adhesionschronic illnesschronic paingood adviceNaBloPoMorelationship issues Post navigation ← Harsh Image: So true! → 12 thoughts on “A Safer Space” If you could find the book “the pursuit of happiness” by Jennifer o Neil (I believe) on amazon, I think it would be a great read for you. It’s 2.99 for the kindle edition I believe. The book has helped myself in many ways. You’re in my thoughts and I am sending positive thoughts your way. LikeLike Reply Thank you very much. I’ll check it out. I appreciate the positive thoughts…I need them. I know you’ve been through the ringer yourself, haven’t you? LikeLike Reply Yeah I have. I’m getting better everyday. Leaving a relationship abusive or not is difficult. I have noticed a huge change in the way I feel about myself since leaving. I learn something new everyday about how I used to think being skewed by my ex. I hope you find the strength to choose what is best for you, whatever it may be. LikeLike Reply No, the decision is made. It’s the living situation (and some financial) that has to be worked out. Until then he’s still here. I went through hell last night with him, but I truly believe that everyone’s prayers and well-wishes kept me calm. I have never been able to handle one of his tantrums like I did last night. I stayed calm and tried not to let the things he said affect me. I barely cried. LikeLike Reply That means you’ve grown as a spiritual being. Your learning and that is great. You’ve conquered one of the toughest situations by making the decision the last two are mere technicalities! If you ever need anyone to vent to or get a different perspective please don’t hesitate to email me! Lots of loving energy sent your way! LikeLike Thanks I really appreciate it. I might just take you up on the email thing, but I don’t know that I’m ready to talk about it yet. I know that I will cry if I actually write out what happened and I don’t want him to see me cry anymore. He’s not worth it. Same goes for you. My email is firstname.lastname@example.org. Yours is on your site? LikeLike I just sent an email with my email. Don’t hesitate! LikeLike Alright. Thank you! LikeLike Absolutely! I believe this 100%. LikeLike Reply It hurts, but I do too. I was looking for inspiration for what to write today because I can’t talk about everything yet and saw this. It was perfect. LikeLike Reply Thank you for sharing this Joy! I really needed to read this. I had to let go of a friend that I became codependent with, which, is what I am recovering from. So as hard as it was I know I can’t stress my body for someone that never gives back. It’s so sad and hard even when you know it’s wrong. Xoxo LikeLike Reply It is hard, but gotta be done. Be proud of yourself that you had the strength to do it. I almost called you…are you already in Florida? LikeLike Reply Please leave a comment, some advice, or just say hello! Cancel reply Enter your comment here... Please log in using one of these methods to post your comment: Email (required) (Address never made public) Name (required) Website You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. ( Log Out / Change ) You are commenting using your Twitter account. ( Log Out / Change ) You are commenting using your Facebook account. ( Log Out / Change ) You are commenting using your Google+ account. ( Log Out / Change ) Cancel Connecting to %s Notify me of new comments via email. Notify me of new posts via email.